It's 2015.. WHY YOU WILL BE LEFT BEHIND.

With the passing of the "Religious Freedom Bill" I was shocked. I still am trying to understand why the bill is even needed, along with trying to deal with all the scrutiny it now puts the state under.. The backers for the bill say "It's nothing different than the other 19 states" and "It's not discrimination, it's for religion" but yet the state's own Governor cannot answer a simple question about whether it's ok for the LGBT community to truly be discriminated against.

You can see that here --->(http://abcnews.go.com/ThisWeek/video/gov-mike-pence-religious-freedom-law-29987447) P.S. he also says "It's not on my Agenda" when asked if the LGBT community should be under the same civil rights as everyone else under Indiana and Federal legislature.. Hmmm. That's a really hard decision, don't you agree? (sarcasm)

I have been thoroughly displeased with the decision of the passing of this law and the people who support such a decision. The reason the title says "you will be left behind" is because that is the truth. The people who believe that the LGBT community does not deserve to have equal rights as everyone else will eventually not be "cool" in the eyes of society. We now are slowly but surely evolving into a society in which we understand that the human endeavor is a hard one.. who are we to decide how one decides to live life and whom they choose to love!? The generation that I grew up in and live in now is a generation that is not tolerant to bullying, the intolerance to ambiguity, or inequality for other people. You're no longer just a "bigot" or just  "prejudice" .. you're now simply just an "asshole" 

 We cannot decide how one lives but we can decide that we all should be together in the world. I have often heard the phrase "don't push your lifestyle onto mine and make me accept it" .. At this point, no one is pushing anything on anyone.. I think the only thing that is being pushed is the acceptance that everyone was created equal. For all the true patriots reading this article, may I remind you of the phrase "Dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal under the eyes of God" .. Or did we decide to cut that one out when it comes to sexual orientation or any other issue that "pushes the envelope"

I have also been thinking about us. Humans. We want freedom of religion (just as long as it's in our terms), we want marriage and love (as long as it's in our terms of "norm"), we want and dream of our own family (as long as we can say who can and can't marry to fulfill that dream) and we also want to say that America is the greatest country in the world. If you look at all these things, the biggest thing lacking with equality in America is our willingness to open up and accept something that is different than what we know to be our "normal" .. 

Here's my point: more than ever we need to love. We need to love each other because without that, we have nothing. Whether you want to say you can't love another because your religion says you can't, I say out of all religions, none of them teach hate. Hate is something that is taught to you. 

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.” - Nelson Mandela

-G

Traveling Is A True Blessing.

Traveling. Seriously one of the best things ever made available to the human life. It allows you to see things you've never seen, meet people you've never met, and think deeper than you have ever thought. I think once you go traveling, you are allowed to change the way in which you think on a regular basis. My wife and I are so blessed to be able to understand this experience and to keep experiencing these new places, people, and things. I don't think I would have it any other way and that's because we save our money for nothing but our necessities and our next means of travel to see more and more. It makes you a much more well-rounded person because you are able to see not only God's creation but you are also allowed to step back and look at your own life and all your worries and fears and see that none of it really matters. All of the possessions that we think are so precious to us really mean nothing because when we do pass away and everything that we ever thought was important goes away.. what do we really have? We truly will always have our memories of life and experiences we lived that makes us thankful and able to say "Wow, I had a great life and I was able to see the world and experience things that some people would never care to do!" Traveling is a blessing.

This is a great example:

Proverbs 16:9
The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.

The Bachelor? STAWP.

So, my wife and I watch the Bachelor. Yes, I know. Believe me, I know. But it's actually really entertaining to watch one person get to decide who he/she is going to marry within, ehhh, a couple weeks. And they are strict on that shit too! It's not like "ok, he gets to decide who he wants to marry but then he also gets to live with three of you for a while without the cameras to see if you are going to be on the next "Who the F*ck did I marry?" .. no. It seems like by the time he has decided to give the last rose, it's already on E! and they are getting ready to announce the wedding date. But see, that's the thing I'm really trying to talk about in this post. This is not real life. Even if he chills with the last woman he really wants to marry, he still doesn't even know her! When he was sending girls home after the first week and then you see them crying and sobbing and saying things like, and I quote, "I don't know if I'll ever feel the same about myself anymore!" .. For real, girl?? You don't even know if he is actually a good guy! what if he is faking it for the cameras and he actually drinks whiskey and beats the hell out of you one day at home! (I'm not saying he is like that but you never know, he said he likes whiskey!) Plus, you've know him for FOUR DAYS!

The point is that this is not real life. You have to be with someone for a while to see what they are really like. There are certain things that need to happen in order to really be a couple. She needs to fart in front of you for example.. and I'm not talking those little teeny farts that sound like a mouse burping, I'm talking full-on fart, one of those farts where you're not real sure if she pooped her pants or not! THAT IS REAL LIFE. Comfortability is key in a relationship! Now I know not all couples fart around each other and I'm not saying you have to have a shitting contest in order to get married, but there needs to be a certain comfortability with each other in which you truly understand what it will be like to spend the rest of your life with that same person. That literally means you have to accept everything that your partner in crime does. For me, it's loving Taylor Swift and holding her hair back as she pukes from a long night out on the town (really only two cups of Vodka and Cranberry) That is real life.

-G